Monday - 20 May 2013

This is our final post for our gallant warrior and the narrative version of his obituary which was placed in the Transylvania Times of Brevard, NC, The Griffin Daily News of Griffin, GA and The Potomac News of Woodbridge, VA today.  There is talk of publishing his blog with all of it's typos and Dougisms.  If you would like to have a copy it will be available at a later date.  Let us know on his email if you are interested.  dwheeless05@gmail.com.  Most finally thank you so, so much for your prayers, notes, emails and support of him through his courageous battle. 

 

God bless the USA. 

Lieutenant Colonel Douglas Crowder Wheeless, (US Army Ret.) 69, of Brevard, NC died on Saturday, May 18, 2013 at Duke Hospital surrounded by his family in love.  Like the soldier he was, he fought overwhelming odds in his battle against cancer.   A memorial service will be held at First United Methodist Church in Brevard on Friday, May 24 at 2:00 pm.  He will be interred at a later date at Arlington National Cemetery with full military honors. 

Doug had a long distinguished career of service in the US Army.  After four years of arduous military training at North Georgia College, he was designated a Distinguished Military Graduate and entered the regular Army in the Signal Corps.  After technical and paratrooper training he was posted to the 101st Airborne Unit stationed at Ft. Bragg NC, a “first responder” Army unit.   One of his deployments was to Washington, DC during the riots following Dr. King’s assassination.  From Ft. Bragg, he was assigned to the First Infantry Division in Vietnam.  As an Infantry Battalion Signal Corps Officer he served on the front lines insuring that critical communication lines were available to the units.  He was awarded the Bronze Star and Army Commendation medals for his outstanding performance.  Following Vietnam, Doug was selected for extensive communications training at Ft. Monmouth, New Jersey where he also earned his MBA. After that he was Professor of Military Science and Commandant of Cadets at Iowa State University in Ames, Iowa.

The Army put his extensive technical training to good use by assigning him to Pusan, South Korea where he served as the senior Army signal corps officer responsible for all communications for this critical military installation.  His performance was rewarded by being selected for the highly competitive Command and General Staff College and Ft. Leavenworth, Kansas.  Following graduation, he was assigned to the Army General Staff at The Pentagon where he held sensitive positions on the Operations Directorate involving development and procurement of Army communications systems.  From the Army Staff, Doug was assigned to the prestigious Joint Chiefs of Staff, where he served in a position for planning and execution of communications support to operational military forces.  He was also twice awarded the Defense Meritorious Medal for his service in The Pentagon.

A fellow soldier who served with him for most of his career noted that he had never encountered another leader like Doug. He was unflappable and humble, yet he made things happen.  Units he commanded were highly disciplined and well trained.  His troops loved him.  In the Pentagon assignments, he was the “go-to” guy for Army and Joint Staff Generals.

After retirement from the U.S. Army in 1986, Doug was a Division Chief for Advanced Systems Development (ASD), an information technology support contractor primarily supporting the Department of Defense in The Pentagon.  He was employed by ASD for 24 years during which he was pivotal for ensuring the operational readiness of numerous networks, databases, and communications systems within the Office of the Secretary of Defense (OSD).  This included oversight of the Executive Support Center for managing communication cables for OSD and providing direct communications support for the Defense Secretary while on travel.

In 2010 he retired to the beautiful Western NC Mountains in Brevard.  He enjoyed frequent family gatherings, his new Brevard friends, hiking and golf.  Upon diagnosis of Acute Myeloid Leukemia he created a blog called “Conquering AML” to chronicle his experiences. (dougwheeless.blogspot.com)

Doug is survived by his wife of 43 years Jane Manley Wheeless a native of Griffin, GA and his three children, Amy Wheeless Peters of Huntersville, Camilla Frances Christopher of Cleveland, GA and Isaac William Wheeless, II of Asheville; son-in-laws Kevin Peters and Scott Christopher; four grandchildren, Julia and Sara Peters and Laurel and Clayton Christopher.  He is survived by his brother L.  David Wheeless and sister-in-law Jeanie Wheeless of Roswell, GA;  brother and sisters-in-law Taylor and Anne Manley and Gail Hammock of Griffin, GA., many nieces and nephews and grand-nieces and nephews, and dear, life-long friends, like family Joyse Witheridge of Brevard and Alison Witheridge of Encinitas, CA. 

Doug is preceded in death by his infant son Douglas Crowder Wheeless, Jr. and his parents Isaac William Wheeless and Henri Frances Crowder. 

Arrangements are being made by Moody-Connolly of Brevard.  Visitation is Thursday night between 6:00 and 7:30 pm. Memorial donations may be made to Wounded Warrior Project or the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.

Sunday - 19 May 2013

 

First of all our family wants to thank all of you for your prayers and support.  Memorial events for Doug are:

 

*  Visitation at Moody-Connolly Funeral Home in Brevard, NC Thursday, May 23rd from 6:00 to 7:30 PM.  Memorial donations may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project or the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.

 

*  Memorial service at First United Methodist Church in Brevard, NC, Friday, May 24th at 2:00 PM

 

*  Burial at Arlington National Cemetery.  TBD.  Probably three months from now.

 

Stay tuned.  We will have his obituary/narrative posted tomorrow.

Saturday - 18 May 2013

 

Day 29

 

We lost Doug shortly after noon today.  He passed with all of us surrounding him in love.  Even our associate pastor from Brevard was there.  Sweet Douglas is now telling jokes in heaven.  God I hope they are ready for his foolishness.  We will have the funeral at FUMC in Brevard Friday at 2:00 pm.  Visitation probably Thursday evening at Moody Connolly Funeral Home in Brevard.  Burial at Arlington in a few months.  Stay tuned for further details. 

 

Love you guys for your prayers and support and laughter.

Friday - 17 May 2013

 

Day 28

 

Ghost writers back.  Not a good day for Doug.  Unfortunately kidney and liver numbers are dropping and heart is slowing.  The kids are here and we are all together. We will meet with doctors tomorrow to try to make the best decision for Doug.  The warrior is still at battle.  Prayers for strength, peace and love. 

Thank you for the flood of emails.  We have been reading them to him. 

Thursday - 16 May 2013

 

Day 27

 

Ghost writers still on duty.  It was a rather uneventful day.  The EEG has been taken away because there was no evidence of seizure activity.  The CT and MRI showed no abnormalities.  Waiting on some cultures to grow from the Lumbar Puncture but Doug's condition continues to baffle one of Duke's finest teams.  The good news is that the breathing tube was not critical but used as a preventative to assure a good airway and we hope in the near future it will be removed.  He is getting nutrition which is a good thing and absolutely so zonked out that we will never recall this experience. 

 

Please continue prayers and emails.  As soon as he is able to receive them they will be shared with him.  The medical staff all say that they are in this fight with him and he can recover.  We hold on to hope and prayer. 

Wednesday - 15 May 2013

 

Day 26

 

Ghost writers back.  It was a rough day in ICU.  Doug had an episode which could have been a mild seizure that thankfully Joyse alerted the medical team that it was happening.  This resulted in a breathing tube being placed and a boat load of diagnostic tests to find out the cause of his mental status.  Actually this is a good thing because nurses tell us he can recover from this but HE needs to do the work. We need to stay optimistic and pray.  We should know results of diagnostics tomorrow and hopefully a plan will be in place to resolve this current issue.  The comforting thing this is that he has been sedated with a good airway and his stats are good so he has an optimal situation for restorative progress. 

 

Thank you so much for the transcontinental prayers that we feel and appreciate. We have been told to talk to him even though he is sedated so if there is an email you want to send we will read them to him again and again. 

Tuesday - 14 May 2013

 

Day 25

 

Ghost writers, not riders, are back and probably will be for a while.  Doug's fogginess has unfortunately increased and he has a condition called hepatic encephalopathy.  This condition is due to the toxins from the liver damage impacting his brain.  It produces a delirium state.  We are being told that even though Doug's liver function has improved the toxins have not completely worked their way out of his body and therefore the brain has taken this hit.  The good news is that a CT head scan revealed no additional problems.  Right now he is unable to swallow medicines, drink or eat.  So a nasal gastric tube has been placed to allow him to have the critical nutrition for the bone marrow transplant and the medicines to address the delirium.

 

The situation is serious but we are hopeful that a slow and steady recovery is in the future.  Unfortunately, his slow improvement has been interrupted and probably will be again by a backslide here and there. 

 

Prayers and emails please. 

Monday - 13 May 2013

 

Day 25

 

Ghost riders on duty again as Doug is experiencing something called ICU delirium and is not as sharp as a tack.  The good news is that his heart is doing well without supportive measures.  His liver has recovered and kidney function is greatly improved.  The plan is to have a transition day tomorrow basically weaning him off continuous dialysis so that he can be transferred to the inpatient bone marrow transplant unit a floor up.  He is currently stable and getting better.  He is experiencing physical weakness due to the hit that he took with loss of kidney/liver function.  We have been told that both the physical weakness and the cognitive confusion will improve over time. 

 

Prayers are always requested.  Keep the emails coming.  We are using them as cognitive hooks for him.  dwheeless05@gmail.com

Sunday - 12 May 2013

 

Day 24

 

Doug not yet able to do blog.  So the girls are back.  Fairly slow day in ICU.  He's extremely sleepy and is staying awake for a "Hot Second" as described by his nurse tonight.  But truly it may be a blessing that he is sleeping a lot and not aware of everything that is happening to him and is being done for him.  Very positive signs of recovery in his numbers and counts, however, his body will take quite a while to recover we are told from this assault.  Probably in ICU for another week or more and then bone marrow transplant inpatient unit for a couple of weeks. 

 

We are remaining positive for a great outcome from this long road of recovery.  BMT team says this should not impact the transplant process. 

 

Hoping funny quotes will return soon. 

Saturday - 11 May 2013

 Day 23

Hello again from Jane and Joyse.  Doug is very weak and still foggy.  However, his numbers are improving in response to dialysis.  This improvement is a very positive sign but it will still be a slow recovery.  Once again Doug has baffled them with his resilience.  No specific cause has been determined.  This just may be the cumulative effects of numerous chemo treatments and his low immune system.   The bone marrow transplant team is reassuring us that at this time the transplant process has not been compromised.  So Suzibel and Veronica have not been harmed. 

 

We are extremely impressed with the caliber of the ICU nursing staff at Duke.  They have been responsive and knowledgeable in addition to comforting during this episode.  We have also been impressed with the physician team approach in reviewing all the issues and coming up with the best approach to treatment.  Plus it has been great to have Cam here to interpret complex medical terms when we have looked over our masks at each other with questions in our eyes.

Prayers please.

Friday - 10 May 2013

 

Day 22

 

Hello, it's Jane and Joyse again.  Doug remains in ICU and will probably be there for a few more days.  He is alert, talkative, joking as usual and trying to charm all the nurses.  He is just very weak and not up to putting out the blog yet.  We are optimistic that a proper regimen has been put in place to improve his kidney and liver function, increase the strength of his heart and reduce fluids.  All are needed to get him back on track.  His medical team has indicated that the treatment in place should be successful.  He is receiving some powerful heart meds and is on temporary dialysis.   

 

He is, however, feeling a bit disconnected from his normal communication channels so if you would like to send him a message or note through text or email please do.  But do not expect a response.  His email address is dwheeless05@gmail.com.  Thank you for your prayers and support.

 

Quotes from Doug starting again soon.

 

Thursday - 9 May 2013

 

Day 21

Hello everybody this is Jane (and Joyse).  Quite the day here at Duke. From clinic we went to the inpatient unit at Duke Hospital on to the ICU due to higher than normal kidney and liver function numbers and fluid retention.  This was a major toad in the road.  At this point Doug is stable and responding well to treatment.  Once the true cause is found we are expecting him to rally soon.  Major prayers please.

All the kids and Joyse are here for our support.

 

Jane! If Amy, Cam, Ike and Joyse are coming in tonight you need to get beer for the kids and gin for Joyse!!!.  Doug Wheeless from my bed in ICU

Tuesday - 8 May 2013

Day 20

All is improving from the toad in the road.   My heart is back in rhythm.  They simply changed my meds from the unproven to the unknown and from the unacceptable to the unbelievable so hopefully it will work.   I am actually feeling better,  but white count still below zero.

"Don't Give In, That Old Wheel Will Roll Around Again." From "That Old Wheel"    Johnny Cash

Tuesday - 7 May 2013

 

Day 19

At least I have something to report these days.  After becoming dehydrated and released from the hospital, today I am over hydrated as I am prone to retain fluid.  It is a balancing act.   I told them today it was performance anxiety as 4 or 5 people kept asking if I had gone.    Anyway,  I am thankfully in the condo drinking H2O.

"Choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude is going to determine how you're going to live your life."  Joel Osteen    (My Man on TV)

Monday - 6 May 2013

Day 18

FREE from the Big House!   Infection under control, heart rate at legal rate, and nose has stopped bleeding from topical wound.   I will resume normal out patient treatment tomorrow.

I sure enjoyed Amy's visit.  She has a way about about her.

"Who can't relate to the idea of leaving one chapter behind and moving on to the next"   Mike Shinosa

 

Sunday- 5 May 2013

Day 17

Some progress today.  Heart people cleared me and I was presented the plan to release me from the Big House.  This is dependant on the elimination of the Gram Negative infection.   I will be wearing the case again to allow mobile medication even if the infection is not quite gone.

"Suffering isn't ennobling,  recovery is."   C. Bernard

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Saturday - 4 May 2013

Day 16

The doctor found some tape that is used between rounds on boxers to stop bleeding on my nose injury.  So far that is working.    They did find  a bacterial infection, Graham Rod Negative, which means that I will be an in-patient a few more days.  Everything else is under control.

Watching golf and Derby, with no fear of losing cable.

We are enjoying Amy's visit even though I am in the "big house."

"I will be really happy, once I've done my jail time.  I can start fresh."  Nicole Richie

Friday - 3 May 2013

Day 15

The Paso Doble got voted off last night when I started running a pretty good fever and was told to come into the Duke Hospital BMT Unit.  As we were going through security at the ER entrance, my world went dim and I fell against the glass entry door.  Evidently I smashed my glasses against my nose leaving a deep abrasion that bled all over everywhere.  Guess I know how to make an entrance that gets attention.  So after 4 hours in ER, I was admitted to the BMT Unit at Duke.  It was determined that I did not crack open my head and I would continue with treatment in BMT Unit at Duke for a few days instead of out-patient (which I prefer greatly). Seems I have become severely dehydrated which is fairly common with BMT patients but the side effect has been an irregular heat beat (called A-Fib) and light headedness thus the tumble I took last night.  So here for a few days to sort things out .  Doc think it will resolve itself so I do too.  Also good news is that I have no infections and didn't really hurt anything with the fall.

We are excited that Amy is coming and due to arrive in couple of hours.  I won't be able to walk the Duke Gardens but it will certainly be good to see her. She walks for her Masters a week from Saturday at UNCC. We are proud of her doing this while working full time and taking great care of her family.  You rock!

"Don't dwell on what went wrong. Instead focus on what to do next. Spend your energies on moving forward toward finding the answer."

Denis Waitly

 

Thursday - May 2, 2013

Day 14

All is well, just  a little deal with my heart doing the Paso doble and me having to learn the Quickstep to get back to the condo quickly after a walk. Mayon, niece, and those who watch Dancing With The Stars will understand.  I am good just got a little low on fluids.   Also,  received platelets and magnesium today.   I have definitely reached bottom, Nadir,  on white blood cells.  Soon they should start building up again.

"I've  always believed that if you don't stay moving, they will throw dirt on you."

Paul Anka (who knew)

 

Styling in my satin  robe and jamas.

Wednesday - 1 May 2013

Day 13

Slipped by day 13 with no problems.  As my white blood cell count has pretty much bottomed out, I do feel a little fatigue which is resolved by a nap.  PA said I may be now producing platelets which is a good thing.   She also said that on the protocol that I am on, this low period may last a  little longer.  Others have said that since I was slow to start maybe this would not last as long.  Beats me.  Infection and fever are still the big threats as low white cell count means no immune system.  So Whoopee!

Amy is coming this weekend and   Cam and Ike have visits scheduled in May.  Looking forward to those as well as Taylor, Jane's bother, in June.  Joyse, our steady friend,  will be back to relieve  Jane. 

"Expect touble as an inevitablr part of life and repeat to yourself, the most comfortiingt words of all;  this, too shall pass.  Ann Landers

Tuesday - 30 April 2013

Day 12

Had an 0900 appointment so Jane had to get up early.  Did not need any supplements such as magnesium,  potassium, platelets or blood.  All is still going well.  White blood cell count is going down slowly and is now at .2.  Immune system almost gone so after that it is supposed to build back up with the new good cells.  I am trying not too get cocky as this has been easy so far, but there is still time for unpleasantness.

"The best of the free life is yet to come, and  the good times are not over for good."  Line from, "Are the Good Times Really  Over For Good."  Merle Haggard

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Monday - 29 April 2013

Day 11

Received more magnesium today.  I really run through that stuff.  Also received Neupogene, to slow down the white blood cell reduction.   Docs just want to control the process.  Prior to today cells were slow to reduce but now are moving faster as I am down to .3 with a goal of less than .1.

 

Typical Day:

Ride to Clinic

Check in with receptionist

Proceed to assigned treatment room

Weigh self on scales

Proceed to vacant cubicle

Donate blood

Get treatment

 I am beginning to feel like a trained goat.

"The only way to keep your  health is to eat what you don't want, drink what you don't like, and do what you'd rather not."  Mark Twain

 

Sunday - 28 April 2013

Day10

This was an easy Sunday morning with no problems.   White blood cells are decreasing now and were down to .9 this morning.   Docs are looking for them to go down to less than .1 and then to gradually start rising because of the new cells.  Normal white blood cell count is 3.2 to 9.8.  I did not make the 7 -10 day period as most patients do, but all are happy and say that , once again, I'm a little different.   The goal of less than .1 is called Nadar and one is supposedly guaranteed to feel tired and have a fever whn reaching that period.

Our pharmacy was having trouble getting approval for payment  for a prescription as Medicare insisted that I had to have a dismissal from the hospital to receive it.  They could not understand that I had not been admitted so it's kind of hard to be dismissed.  This is still ground breaking procedure.

It is a rainy cool Sunday here in Durham so we're just chilling.  

"Adversity causes some men to break, others to break records."  Willim Ward

PS. my email is dwheeless05@gmail.com

Saturday - 27 April 2013

Day 9

I am afraid if something interesting doesn't happen soon,  I may lose some readers.  Anyway,  I was a "quart low" on platelets today so I got some.  White blood cells are finally going down as they are  supposed to do.  So all good news.

I would like to thank the Peters family consisting of my daughter, Amy, husband, Kevin, and my wonderful grandchildren,  Julia and Sara,  for holding a "Be The Match" event at their church in Huntersville,  NC.  This gives people the opportunity to register and be on the national donor list as  possible bone marrow donor.  People can also make contributions for the cause.  The event was quite successful. Thank you.  I heard that Amy received great accolades for presentation of the announcement of the event at the Sunday morning service. 

"Keeping up the appearance of having all your marbles is hard work, but important."  Sara Gruen

Friday -  26 April 2013

Day 8

Good day at the treatment center.  I am rid of the mobile dispenser bag of immune suppressant which weighed about 11 pounds.   I now take a pill instead.  Our transplant doc says he is very pleased with how things are going and a little surprised about how well my body is coping, as in no side effects.  So far, so good. 

It is sad news that George Jones died today at age 81.  Probably a good run considering what he put himself through.  Back before they killed Music Row,  radio DJ's would say,  "Other than George Jones, who is the world's best country singer?"  He will be missed.

"I ain't ready for the junk yard yet, I still feel like a new Corvette.  An Eskimo needs a Frigidaire like I need your rocking chair."  From "I Don't Need Your Rocking Chair."   George Jones

Thursday - 25 April 2013

Day 7

Day 7 was uneventful.  We had a 1400 appointment and had to receive IV doses of magnesium and potassium.  Never really knew that I used so much of these.

Jane insisted that we should get a handicapped sign so we visited NCDMV today.  I cannot get out of the car to go to any place except a Duke Medical Facility or our condo so I am not sure who needs the sign.

All is still good with no side effects.

"To succeed in life, you need two things: ignorance  and confidence."   Mark Twain

 

Wednesday - 24 April 2013

Day 6

Sitting in the Adult Bone Marrow Clinic (ABMC)  listening to Otis Redding, getting blood transfusion as hemoglobin is approaching a lower level.  You must understand that if I receive 1 unit of blood, about 3/4 of an unit is then taken out for testing.   All is normal.  Jane is back and discussing "Him" with the PA's and everybody.  Joyse is at Whole Foods buying shrimp and stuff for tonight's dinner.  I am a well fed patient.

"Don't tell me how rocky the sea is, just bring the ship in"  Lou Holtz

(Advice that I have given to myself)

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Tuesday  - 23 April 2013

Day 5

Had a 1400 appointment today so had a lazy AM.  Still at the clinic as I needed more magnesium which takes about 1 1/2 hours.  All is good with no side effects.

Joyse and I walked the Duke Gardens  again which is a better stroll than around the condo complex.  I have discovered through intensive research that neither the Duke Medical Facilities,  Duke U, nor Duke Gardens have any connection to Daisy and Bo Duke.

Still tiptoeing thru the tulips.

Nothing else to report. Jane is en route so we got to hurry back and pick up at the condo!

"The world is getting crazy and  it seems to be  getting worse everyday so,  Come On Back Jesus and Pick Up John Wayne On The Way."   Willie Nelson from "Come On Back Jesus"

Monday - 22 April 2013

Day 4

Another good day. Only had to take a magnesium pill and had a short clinic visit.   Tomorrow's  appointment is not until 1400 so it should be even quicker as I will not have to wait on others.

Jane is in VA consulting and will be back tomorrow night.  Joyse is cooking lamb chops.

"Tough times never last, tough people do."   Dr. Robert Schuller

Sunday - 21 April 2013

DAY 3

  Another easy day.  Testing at 1100, no meds needed,  so dismissed at 1215.   After a brief break at the condo,  we walked through Duke Gardens which is a very large (5 miles of trails) botanical garden, beautifully landscaped. All the tulips were in bloom so it was very dramatic.  Those girl cells are bringing out my feminine side. 

The tulips and me at Duke Gardens.

 

 

 

How to survive boredom of daily treatment routine.

(Must have toys including cell phone , Ipod, laptop, and Kindle)

We were even able to stream our Brevard Ssunday church service over my laptop  which is broadcast on WSQL AM  (White Squirrel Radio)

"Difficulties in life intended to make us better, not bitter"   Dan Reeves (Former NFL player and coach)

Saturday- 20 April 2013

Day 2

Funny,  does not seem like a Saturday.  We had an 1100 appointment today.  I received a blood transfusion as hemoglobin was low. It is all kind of a balancing act, We were out by 1400 so another easy day with no side effects.

Joyse and I went for a good walk.  Jane is cooking cornish game chickens for dinner.  Life is good,

"God gets you to the plate, but once you're there, you're on your own."  Ted Williams (baseball hitter).  

Friday - 19 April 2013

Day 1 after Transplant

All is well after the big event.  None  of the expected side effects but day 7 to 10 is the most likely time for nausae and other stuff.  Perhaps,  I can slip by that also. The first month will also be the important period of time when the cells should actually start growing.  

I have named  the babies whose blood cord was donated.  First there is the girl from NY who I have named Veronica (nice northern Catholic name) and the girl from NC is named SuziBel (yes, with one L).   SuziBel will probably attend Duke. Not sure about Veronica but I am fairly assured that she will head South for a finer education.

Joyse has arrived.  She will be the patient assistant for the first part of next week while Jane goes to VA for her consulting work.  It is good to have her here.

TRANSPLANT ACCOMPLISHED - DAY 0

 

Thursday-  18 April 2013

Daily Blog

 

I received the cord blood transplants from two babies whose cord blood was voluntarily donated by the parents.  Both happen to be female, one from the South (NC), one from the North (NY/PA), one is O+ and one A+.  One of these two will be dominant and foster the growth of new healthy cells.  I received one transplant at 1015 this morning and the second at 1345.   All went well and there have been no side effects.,  I am told that there should be some weakness in 7 to 10 days and be on the lookout for any temp over 100.5.  If the temp exceeds 100.5, we go to the transplant center in the daytime or the emergency room at night.  Hopefully that will not happen.

Our associate pastor was with us for both transplants and said a much appreciated prayer prior to each procedure.   That is very special.  There have been many prayer groups and prayers.  i am very fortunate to have such family, friends, and supporters.

Jane, I and whoever acts as my patient assistant during this time will have to be vigilant.

I have no preference as to which set of cells wins this battle, but my blood type could change and I guess I would drink more "white wine" in the future.  No danger of accent change.

 

"Even if you are on the right track, you will get run over if you just sit there."  Will Rogers   

 

Wednesday - 17 April 2013

Daily Blog

Well,  that was all very anti-climatic.  This morning started with the usual blood tests and vital exams.  I am still checking out good in all areas such as potassium, magnesium,  and other areas such as heart, kidneys, and liver functions.  Not that there was ever any question.

Then the radiation which has been known to cause nausea and knock one out fortunately has had no side effects.   I did have to put on one of those gowns but, other than that, it was a nap on a gurney.

So tomorrow is the big day. We will do the usual exam at 0830 and then do the transplant, which is like a transfusion, when they can do it.  No specific time.  I am promised that there will be a weakness side effect in 7 to 10 days.  Infection is still the biggest threat as the chemo and the radiation is designed to knock the immune system down to zero.   It could be a long haul.

"They certainly give strange names to diseases." Plato

Tuesday - 16 April 2013 

DAILY BLOG

Well, that completes my last round of chemo and should be the last one forever.  Tomorrow is radiation day and then Thursday is the day of  the transplant, so things are getting kinda serious fairly rapidly.  I will have blood test each morning, then the procedures.  After that, just monitoring by blood tests, etc.

In celebration of the last chemo,  we had a nice lunch out and got the oil changed in the jeep.

Not much other news except it now takes 17 days to have mail forwarded here by  USPS as NC distribution offices have closed and mail goes to VA for rerouting.

Quote for Julia Peters

"Always remember,

a cat looks down on a person,

a dog looks up to a person,

but a pig will look a person straight in the eye

and see his equal."         Winston Churxhill

Monday - 15 April  2013

Another day of chemo and preliminary doses of antibiotics, anti nausea and other stuff.  All is still going easy.  i am now required to wear a pack which makes it possible to recieve meds while mobile so I  wear it low slung on my hip as though, with my shirttail out, I look as though I may be packing heat, which is accepted or expected in the beautiful mountains of Western NC.  Not real sure about this Durham town. 

 One more day of chemo,  then one day of total body radiation and the transplant,   Things are moving rapidly.  We will know the results when they happen and that's the only real fact at this point. All I  know is that, we are giving it hell  and have good medical promises and expertise.

Not much more news,  except that out of the 250 or so condoes in this complex,  we are the only one with pots of herbs, tomatoes, and flowers on the patio,   Jane has struck by quickly finding Lowes and Home Depot. 

"Was it yesterday or the day before?"   A line from Kentucky Rain sung by Elvis.

Sunday-  14 April 2013

Well, I guess this a different kind of Sunday since I have to be at the clinic at 0800.  Yesterday was just terrible.  All counts were good,  chemo was easy, had a nice lunch and went back to the condo to watch the Masters UNTIL THE CABLE WENT OUT.  Time Warner Tech help was remotely familiar with written troubleshooting procedures.  After I discovered that all 3 TVs were inoperable (horrors), our Oakwood Manager suggested that we check Internet and telephone.  Yes, they were out and we were on a deserted island (double horrors) - no Masters  and no Texas NASCAR.  By this time most of Eastern NC had been alerted but the cable company said they would quickly send someone out by Tuesday.  After a call to them by our condo manager infoming them of the total cable outage,  we were restored to life after about two hours in the vacuum. 

Jane and I tried to stay mostly congenial throughout the ordeal and once I got to watch Masters reruns and the remainder of the race,  I felt better.  Yes, we had cell phones and books but used to more tech needs.

Now, as for why I am really here.  We are doing great.  Jane is cooking good meals and we have had great lunches out.  I have been given stero\ds which increase appetite and golf driving ability.  All is good, two more days of chemo then the radiation day.

"With diligence and patience, the mouse bit in two the cable"  Ben Franklin

Saturday - 13 April 2013

Yes, the cure process has begun.  I started the first of five days of chemo yesterday which will be followed by one day of total body irradiation or irradication if one fat fingers the keyboard.  Yesterday, the chemo was  Cytoxan and Fludara and today is Fludara only.  No side effects, yet.  We had a good evening in our new condo operated by Oakwood Corporate Suites which is a very good acommodation just minutes away from the hospital.  

 This procedure  is to be what is known as a "cord blood transplant" which is from two babies who were kind enough to donate as they are fine, healthy folk living good lives. 

We had a great send-off celebration at our home in Brevard last Saturday night with our wonderful Brevard friends including Rick and Page Ciordia who live in Hendersonville, NC on a beautiful golf course named Champion Hills.  Taylor,  google this one.  We are invited to play a round with Rick when I get back home.  Rick is a long time friend from Griffin High School days, class of 62.  Our friends from Brevard included  Joyse, Lisa, Lori, MaryKay, Alice, Peter (actually from Balsam Grove), Biff, Tim and Sylvia,  Chris and Harriett, Jeff and Betsy, Gary and Suzie, Richard and Luanne,  and Ike from Asheville.  We are fortunate to have made such wonderful friends.  Thank you, Toni.

Tim,  former member of the National Italian Orchestra,  played his alto  horn and his wife, Sylvia, beautifully sang "O sole mio" in Italain.  The deck windows held up which was a test of our carpenter, Peter's work.  Tim is a true native of Brevard.  We had great food thanks to Jane and Joyse and also plenty of libations. It was a magnificent night that I will recall during the upcoming 100 days.

For some reason we did gender separation for the party pictures.

In the midst of all this, we lost a dear friend, Daniele Johnson, wife of  Steve Johnson,  both long time friends.  She will be greatly missed.

"Let us run with patience the race that is set before us."  Hebrew12:1  (Sent to us by Judy Britt of GHS - 63.)

 

Saturday - 5 April, 2013

 

Well, it is all going to officially start on Tuesday, 9 April. I will have diagnostic testing for two days and one  dose of radiation (1st time).  This will be followed by 5 days of chemo as these days are refereed to as -6, -5, on down to the actual transplant which the doctors refer to as my new birthday.  It will be 18 APRIL,  same as Sara Peters, granddaughter.

 

We have rented an apartment in Durham as all of this plus 100 days monitoring is out patient.

 

 

Doug  and Kevin Peters,  son-in-law,  at Easter.  Did we both shop at Banana Republic, Gap, or good ole Kohl's ?

 

 

 

 

 



 

Alfred E. Newman - you remember him



 

Sunday - 31 March 2013

 

Posting was delayed due to the whole family Easter visit.  What a great time - hiking, egg hunting, brunching,  churching, and just being with them.  

 

I have been officially medically approved to receive a bone marrow transplant which will either be from Ike as a half-match or from a cord blood transplant.  Not sure which one will be chosen but if the first one doesn't work then I will get the other. 

 

"Take me seriously even with bunny ears"  Doug

 

 

 

Julia,  Doug, Clay,  Laurel, Jane, Sara

 

 

 

Saturday - 23 March 2013

Interesting/crazy but true news from Duke:  Out of  the 10 million international donor pool, there is no match for Douglas Crowder Wheeless.

UNIQUE:  Existing as the only one or as the sole example,  solitary in type or characteristics.  (Mother always  said I was "different")  Old friends from high school, army,  and college are not surprised.

Unusual but not necessarily bad news. The good news is the alternatives that now exist which have an equal chance of success.  The existing alternatives are.

A.  Cord blood transplant (blood from 2 babies' umbilical cords

taken at birth).

B.  Half-match bone marrow from one of my 3 children.

Both options have been equally highly successful.  So,  I have agreed to participate in an NIH study which will randomly select one of the above  options and study my case for the next three years.  I told them that they could follow me for the next 20 for obvious reasons.

What all this really means is that NIH will choose the first type of BMT but if that one should not be successful, we will fall back on the other option.  This will assist NIH in their effort to determine which option is actually the most successful in a head to head comparison. 

As you can imgine,  our kids, Amy, Cam, and  Ike,   are"all in" to donate bone marrow.

 I also had many pre-op tests while at Duke on Thursday which included Pulminary, EKG, ECHO, BM biopsy, and blood draws which required 17 vials.  The results af all these will be revealed by Tuesday and if all are good we will  finally know the schedule.

So continue to participate in "Be the Match" events, donate blood/platelets, and your prayers are appreciated. Amy is hosting a "Be the Match" event at her church in Huntersville,NC.  For information check out www.bethematchfoundation.org/goto/TeamDoug. This event is designed to increase the donor pool overall.

"The more you like yourself,  the less you are like anyone else , which makes you unique."  Walt Disney

 

Saturday - March 16, 2013

Things are looking good.  Immune system is now up in the high normal range.  Doctor says I should go take care of some sick kids.

We will head over to Duke on Thursday for a battery of tests such as EKG, electrocardiogram,  pulmonary,  and an orientation class on what to expect.  Once I pass those tests we will find out about status of donor and actual transplant timing.

Meanwhile, I feel perfectly fine and am enjoying being in the way at home. 

"We were all having a good time until somebody got hurt."  Laurel Christopher, MY 7 YEAR GRANDAUGHTER

THE HIKER

Friday -  8 March 2013

Had bone marrow test  biopsy yesterday- results today!  

   3% leuk blasts!!!!   :)   :)

As mentioned before,   5%  is the goal to qualify for the marrow transplant so I am officially acceptable for the procedure.   We will find out Duke times early next week.

Best news possible.Thanks for the prayers and friendship

 

KITCHEN FINISHED!   JANE IS COOKING CHICKEN PIE!   LEUK AT BAY!   LIFE IS GOOD!!

Monday- March 4, 2013

I'm home at last on my lazy boy in my Carolina Room with the new kitchen in which Jane can toil.  There is a promise of fried chicken tomorrow night.  All signs are good to go. 

Thank you for all the support and prayers. I truly believe that's what got me here.  The plan is that I will continue the blog weekly on Saturdays unless there is something important to report.

"I'm just glad to be anywhere".  Pop Witheridge at age 80 at Amy's wedding

Sunday - 3 March 2013

Good news! Immune system is up high enough to head home tomorrow.  I am ready.   

"Life always offers you a second chance. It's called tomorrow."  UNK

Saturday - 2 March 2013

Good news today!  Immune system (ANC) is up from .1  to .3.    Must get to .5 for next step.  This is real progress.

"Today was good.  Today was fun.  Tomorrow is another one."   Dr. Seuss

Friday - 1 March 2013

No real change in blood counts that influence the immune system.There are signs that positive moves may come in the next few days.   Taste buds are coming back as I had KFC and a small McDs today.   The good news is that this is still a boring blog. 

"It doesn't matter how slow you go, as long as you don't stop." Confucius (given to me by one of the doctors here)

 

Thursday - February 28, 2013

Slow progress on immune system so really things are still going as planned.   Since hair was fallling rapidly, I decided to go ahead and just do it.  Still guessing dismissal early next week.  Joyse may have found a newe occupation.  See pic below.

Of course, I am now looking forward to more rapid progress so I can get out of here and visit children and grandchildren.

"Alll grandchildren are beautiful and smart, especially mine.."  Doug Wheeeless

 Wednesday-27 February 2013

Immune system improving but just needs to kick into second gear.   Feeling good and appetite is improving.   Loosing hair rapidly so will probably assist it with an electric razor tomorrow.,

Would  hope to get out early next week for a break before Duke.

.I will be thinking about my NGC friends as they gather for a birthday celebration at Brasstown Valley Resort.  You know that I wish I could be there.  Have a great time.

"Even if you are on the right track, you'll  get run over if you just sit there."  Will Rogers.

Tuesday - 26 February 2013

Unevntful day.  Immune system up one tenth and is now at .2 and must rise to .5 for movement to Duke. Doc is predicting/hoping that will happen next week.   Maybe a few days at home between.

Joyse visited today and brought more watermelon which prettymuch sustains me.

"The hardest thing about having something wise or funny to say is finding something wise or funny." Doug Wheeless (After watching toomuch daytime TV). 

Monday - 25 February 2013

No real change but should  be seeing some movement in immune system soon.  This whole thing is an R & D procedure but backed by good doctors and staff.

Jane visited today and continues her support even though I don't always act as I appreciate her efforts.

It is good that this blog is getting boring.

"My personal goals are to be happy,  healthy, and to be surrounded by loved ones."Kiana Tom

Sunday - 24 February 2013

Another uneventful day as far as the progress on leuk treatment goes.Waiting on counts to rise up so `we cam proceed.

Cam stopped by again today after spending. the night in Brevard.  She gave me good advice on PT exercise that I should be doing.

Even though progress is being made, I have some more hoops to jump.

Jane and Joyse watched the Daytona 500 with me which occupied some time.

"Life is like an ice cream cone, you have to lick it one day at a time."  Charles Schultz

Saturday - 23 February 2013

What a great day!  A visit from Cam will brighten your day.    We had a wonderful visit.  She also has a good deal of suggestions of what I should be doing physically.  She is right, of course,  Iwill waslk more halls and exercise more.  Thanks, Cam,  the balloons are big and cheering.

Counts are growing slowly.  I am trying to get my ANC count up so I can move to the next step. 

"Pain is temporary.  Quitting lasts forever."    Lance Armstrong

Sorry I was late tonight, but there were two epicodes of Mayberry on TV.

After that

Friday - 22 February 2013

It is a great day!  My leuk blasts are 7% which are close enough to 5% to proceed on the transplant plan.  I will remain in the hospital for the next week or two until my ANC is up to .5.  It is presently at .1.

 

After that, I will spend a few days at home and then go to Duke for the bone marrow transplant.  The transplant process, as I have mentioned,  entails about 90 days of daily monitoring after the actual transplant.  Duke Hospital is looking for a donor from the national donor list.   They have extended stay apartments available near the hospital.  

I am thankful for this last successful treatment and praying for a smooth ride down the long road ahead.

Rick and Paige Ciordia stopped by today. It was good to see old friends.  Jane,  Joyse, and Ike stopped so we shared the good news.  Cam is in town and and is spending the night at our house and will be over tomorrow.

"I used to eat organic food until I read that most people die of natural causes."

UNK

Thursday - 21 February 2013

Okay, tomorrow is a day for big news.  I should get the result from my bone marrow biopsy and will go to Duke for the transplant.  That means about 90 days of staying near the hospital for daily monitoring.  At least I will not be in the hospital the entire time.

I enjoyed Jane staying here today.  Between me and the process of renovating the kitchen, she has had little time to enjoy. Steve Johnson says that she must be a saint. Let's not go overboard.  Ike stopped by for lunch and caused some laughter.  A nurse that Ike knows  who works on one of the other floors brought gifts by the room. Nice of her but perhaps she also wanted to make contact with Ike.

"Always do right.  This will gratify some people and astonish the rest."  Mark Twain

Wednesday - 20 February 2013

Uneventful day.  Back on the food bag as I'm eating watermelon, cantaloupe and grilled cheese sandwiches one after another.  Feel much better each day.  We will probably get the biopsy results tomorrow or Friday.

"There are places I'll remember all my life."Johnny Cash

Tuesday - February 19, 2013

Bone marrow biopsy today.  Will know something in two to three days.  Hopefully a slow day at the lab.  Really enjoying girl scout cookies (Samoas) and cantaloupe. 

 

"Who designed this kitchen.  It's so beautiful. "  Jane Wheeless

Monday - 18 February 2013

Nothing new to report.  Waiting for Wednesday's biopsy.  We'll know the results a couple of days after that.  Good to hear from from Neela and Chuck Benson today.

"Just another day in paradise."  Phil Vassar

Sunday - 17 February 2013

Things going along ok.  ENT doc is treating me for a sinus infection behind my right eye which has caused my headaches.  Looking forward to relief from pain.

Julia, Sara, Amy and Kevin came by for a visit today after skiing with Ike at Wolf Laurel.  It was so good to hear them talk. 

"It was great to see my ski bunnies today." Papa Doug

Saturday - 16 February 2013

Good day. Everything clicking along as planned. Vitals and blood are as expected.  Still looking forward to biopsy about 20 February.

Had a wonderful conversation with Jim Melton today.  Good to talk to you Jim. 

Finally, heard that the 4th bear who fell off the watermelon truck was delivered to Huntersville this morning.  Enjoy!!

"To know me is to love me"....  often quoted by Jim Melton

Paraphrase of song "To know him is to love him" sung by the Teddy Bears

Friday - February 15, 2013

Good evening everyone.  Had another boring day as expected.  Looking forward to tomorrow.  Had platelets today and probably more tomorrow. 

Pictures are Vermont Teddy Bears for all grandchildren for Valentines  Day.



Thursday - 14 February 2013

"Happy Valentines Day to all my friends!!  Numbers are where they are expected to be today and I continue to handle the hospital time."

 

"All you need is love.  But a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt."

Charles M. Schulz

Wednesday -  13 February 2013 (evening)

"Yes, meds have me a little loopey.  But numbers are where they should. "

 

Meds have Doug tired and a little more than loopey.  But he is ok.   He fell asleep in the middle of his dictation.  So I will let him snore and he will have more tomorrow.  Joyse

 

Saturday    -  13 February 2013

All is well.  I glooged when I have blogged.  Yesterday slipped by,  will blog today.

"Never pur off till today what you can do today".  ???????????chemp patient

 

Monday -  11 February 2013

 

Another good day.  New pain aide med works on sinus area ache works.  Vitals good, blood counts drifting along steadily.

Not sure why one would complain about this palace because I have:

*  Room service

*  No free direct food and lodging charges

*  Large room with frig and a view

*  A/C and cable

*  Hot water

*  Convenient   restroom

*  Two   Patient  Assistants (PAs) at my beck and call)

*   Clean sheets everyday

*  Wi-fi, credit card, and time on my hands

However:

"Done laid around, done stayed around, this old town too long, winter's almost gone, spring is coming on.

It seems like I've got to travel on."  Bob Dylan (Modified to fit the seasons)

 

Sunday - 10 February 20

Having pretty good days,   nothing notable.  I think I realized that I have had a dull sinus area ache which is somewhat alleviated with Tylenol.  Hazard of chemo and denial,  all is under control.  More platelets  were  given today.

Jane is back on rotation.  It is good that she is back.  

 

BTW,  I now understand the Groundhog Day movie.

"Papa's visit was my birthday present."  Quote from Laurel  Christopher,  7 yr. old granddaughter in Cleveland,  GA.   (late again with present. )   

Saturday - 9 February 2013

Good BP and steady temp today. Felling stronger and walking steadier.  They took blood for cultures which will be read in 2 days to see if the antibiotics have solved the infections that occurred because of the wreaking of the immune system by the chemo.   Infection came from good old me.  The fact that vitals are normal should mean that meds are working.

Jane and Josy were here  today which appreciate. Had good phone calls with Julia, Laurel, and Brother Dave.   For some reason I am rather talkative.

The doctors, nursing staff, nutritionists and housekeepers are all very professional so I am getting great care.

"Beam me up Scotty,  there is no intelligent life down here."  Dr. Spock or Captain Kirk of Startrek.

Friday - 8 February 2013

Another pretty uneventful day.  I appreciate all the prayers and good thoughts.  Had a great visit with Chaplain Buddy who has the common sense I like.  It's been great to have Joyse to complain to this week.  Jane's on her way back from Virginia and will be here soon.  Ike's coming by after work.

"Only the strong survive..."  sung by Jerry Butler covered later by Elvis

Thursday - 7 February 2013

Uneventful day.  Working on maintaining steady blood pressure.  No transfusions or platelets today.  Blood numbers up slightly.  Glad to be back in my jeans and button down.

"It's not the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog." 

Mark Twain

Wednesday - 6 February 2013

 

Uneventful day.  Immune system still at 0 but should start increasing next week or at least by 20 Feb.    I did receive  a  blood   transfusion today and  will probably get platelets tomorrow.  Just mostly sitting here swapping thumbs.

Joyse is taking good care  and  is being a good advocate.

"Have  we  trials and temptations ?    Is  there trouble anywhere?   We  should never be  discouraged ,  take it to the Lord in prayer."   From 2nd verse of  "What a Friend"   in  The Cokesbury  Hymnal.

 

Chemo doing what it is supposed to do.  Transfusion yesterday which has red blood cells good but other numbers down.  ANC at 0.  But this is what is expected.

What goes up must come down, spinning wheel got to go round... Blood, Sweat and Tears

Monday- 4 February 2013

It is good to be finished with the chemo and just play the waiting game until 20 Feb  for the results.  However,  this stuff works by knocking down good red and white cells as well as bad ones so consequently I am presently receiving 2 units of blood which takes about 5 hours.  I guess tonight they will come by and take out 3 units.

Jane is on her way to VA to continue her consulting in Prince William County Schools.,  She still has a passion for the profession.

Joyse is the PA for the week and is doing a good job.  It is good to have someone around even though I am perfectly capable of independence and stuff.

We enjoyed the Super Bowl but I did not really have a dog  in  that fighi.  I, also,still like football outside with marching bands at half time like the Va Tech Hokies or the UGA Redcoats. 

I got some great drawings from Laurel and Clay today which are now on the room wall. Cam also sent some pictures of our waterfall visits while hiking here last fall. Will probably post some tomorrow on the blog.

"You know, all that really matters is  that the people you love are healthy and happy.  Everything else is just sprinkles on the sundae."

 

 

Sunday - 3 February 2013

Yeah!  Finished  with chemo treatments.  Now we let it brew or percolate for about 15 or 16 days.  I am not strapped to an IV or anything just me and my toys and the hallways. Should be days of boredom if all goes well.  It is a good feeling.  There are chances that I might need a transfusion or infusion if red cells or platelets go too low.  But that's no big deal.

I had a great Super Bowl party considering the location.   Jane and Joyse brought in 5 layer dip and hot dogs.  Did anyone see the electrician with the red shirt?  Ike joined us a we had a great time.

Before that I Skyed with  Cam, Laurel, and Clay.  It is always a boast to see them.  

 

"This suspense is terrible.  I hope it will last."  Oscar Wilde

"Everything that is done in the world is done by hope."  Martin Luther

Saturday - 2 February 2013

I am currently receiving my 2nd treatment of chemo for today.  I have the two doses tomorrow and will be finished.  Then I just wait until about 23 Feb to see if the stuff worked.   So far, no side effects.  My great chemo CNA has adjusted the time back each day so I do not finish at 2300 and also kinds of makes it possible to finish before the super bowl tomorrow.  Jane, Ike, Joyse, and I plan to watch it here in my suite.

 

I enjoyed Amy's visit today.  It is impossible to get down with her around.  I now have a great get well drawing from Sara on my wall and a professional neat calendar where I can mark off the days left.  No more scratching on the prison walls. 

Enjoyed Joyse today.  She keeps me in line and is also alert to what I am supposed to be doing. Jane and her are great PA's. (Patient Assistants). 

" As you walk down  the fairway of life you must smell the roses, for you only get to play one round."   Ben Hogan 

 

Friday- 1 February 2013

I am presently receiving my 3rd round of chemo meds which is going smoothly.  No problems and all vital signs and blood readings are good.  So no real new news in meds department.  Only two more treatments to go and then we go into the monitoring phase for about 3 weeks. 

 

 

Jane is here today with clean clothes as I do not wear the hated gown.  This sure helps the morale and I can continue to be The King Of  De Nile..

 

We are expecting Amy any moment now.  She is delivering the short timers calendar and pictures drawn by Julia and Sara. The walls will not be hospital beige.

 

 

Below is a picture of Buddy Corbin, NGC 70, who is the hospital Chaplain here at Mission Hospital, St. Joseph Campus.  In another life he played in a band at NGC with Scott Johnson.  He is actually teaching me to play the guitar. He is a patient man and promises to have me playing one song soon so I can drive people crazy around here.

 

 

Mother would be  proud as I dropped out of piano lessons at an early age.

 

"One  good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain."  Bob Marley

 

 

 

 

Thursday - 31 January 2013

I had one round of each of my new chemoes last night with no side effects. I actually have an easy schedule as I am not attached to an IV except for the 3 hours of chemo each evening.  So I am free to roam the halls of the tenth floor (whopee).  I have also broken the code on dinner which is served at 4:30PM.  Order a cold sandwich and salad and let it sit for 2 or 3 hours.    All vital signs and blood letting readings are holding their own so I am doing good.  I know most of the staff here and they still put up with me so that helps.  I will start the second rounds of chemo at any moment now.

 

Joyse is here today as Jane is the foreman of the kitchen remodeling crew at home..  The new floor is in so  that is progress.  Amy arrives tomorrow with pictures and short timers calendar.  All the staff wants to know why I have bare walls, because they were  full of  pictures drawn by grandchildren during my last trip here.  They will be here soon as Cam is mailing hers and Amy will deliver hers tomorrow night.

 

 

This is a picture taken during our wonderful Christmas season at the local bowling alley.  Amy, Cam, the grandkids and I all bowled.  On the first row L to R are Clay Christopher and Laurel Christopher son and daughter of Cam,  who  live in Cleveland, GA with dad, Scott.  On the second row are Sara Peters and Julia Peters daughters of Amy, who live in Huntersville, NC with dad, Kevin.

 

 

"You can't help getting older, but you don't have to get older"   George Burns

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Wednesday, 30 January 2013

As we used to say at the picture show,"I think this is where I came in."I am back in Mission Hospital in Asheville for a new type of chemo.  My hemotologist doc from here was able to arrange for me to receive the chemo in Asheville in lieu of Duke.  The treatment will last 5 days and then I remain for about 25 days of monitoring and hopefully boredom.  When the leuk blasts are successsfully lowered to below 5% I will head over to Duke for the bone marrrow transplant.

I had a great visit with Cam, Scott and my wonderful grandchildren, Laurel and Clay last Sunday and Monday.  On Monday, Cam And Scott went to work and Laurel went to school.  Clay, 4 years old, and I went to Mickey D's and had sausage and bacon biscuits.  Then when leaving McDs we saw that Burger King had an indoor play ground so we stopped  there where Clay played and I had another sausage biscuit.  We then went to the Cleveland city playground where we discovered we had left Clay's jacket at Burger King so we zipped bback over to BK and then back to the park where we enjoyed two hours of swinging, kicking balls, and stuff.  We then picked up Laurel and went to the new soda shop on the square in Cleveland.  It was a great time and good memories for this trip.

I somehow got misoriented, not lost, somewhere between Toccoa and Cornelia, GA but a nice state officer pulled me over (70 in 55) near Homer, GA on 441S and gave me directions to Cleveland and no ticket.  He simply said "Drive careful, Colonel, as I had accidently given him my military ID along with license and registration.  Also mentioned I was in GA to visit grandchildren. He also asked I could remember the directions.  (Old what). 

"If you fail, try, try again"  Not sure who originated but Mother said it often.

Saturday - 26 January 2013

We had a good but tiring trip to Duke on Thursday.  I met with several different specialist and finally the main bone marrow transplant doctor.  I think I was evaluated for my physical stamina and mental stability.  I passed the former one with flying colors but there were some close calls on the later.  I have been accepted as a viable candidate for the bone marrow transplant, but first must spend 30 days for another round of chemo in order to reduce my leuk cells to 5%,  Our doctor is confident.  We do not know if I will spend the 30 days in Asheville or Durham but should know soon as it is supposed to start on 30 Jan.

Jane's kitchen remodeling is moving forward rapidly.  All demolition is done and flooring, cabinets, counter top, sink, lights, garden window, etc. have either been ordered or delivered.  It is a pretty big mess so I think I will get a room in Asheville or Durham for 30 days or so to get away.

I plan to visit with Cam, Scott, Laurel, and Clay Sunday and Monday in Cleveland, GA.

"Keep it between the ditches."  Me

"The truth is you don't know what in going to happen tomorrow.  Life is a crazy ride and nothing is guaranteed."  Eminem

Saturday - 19 January 2013

Woke up Friday morning to find severe hot water leak under the kitchen sink.  Results are that ServePro is removing kitchen flooring,  lower cabinets, basement ceiling dry wall, sink and counter top.  Jane wanted to remodel kitchen anyway so the demolition part is being done.  Kevin is here to help.

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BTW, Interesting visit to Duke this week and not quite the news we were hoping for.  Leuk cells are up so I will need to do 30 days of in hospital chemo before marrow transplant.  Anyway, we will meet with the transplant doc at Duke next Thursday to discuss future plans.   Tentative plan is to start chemo at Duke on 30 Jan and then if chemo level is okay proceed to transplant procedure.

"I'm Fine."   Quote from Taylor B. Manley Jr. & Ali Witheridge when asked how they are doing.

Saturday -  12 January 2013

Shot week is over.  Wahoo!  I told the techs that they gave me a reason to look forward to Friday again because in retirement life each day can be most of the same. All is well and it is going to be 70 degrees today in these mountains so I am playing golf with Rick Ciordia , Griffin High School friend who now lives in Hendersonville.

 We go to Duke on 16 Jan for eval to determine if my leuk cell count is low enough to consider a bone marrow transplant.  Doc has plans for a rather lengthy stay so I guess I should start watching basketball.  I will have some real news next Sat. as we will not get test results until Friday. 

 "Savor every moment, you only get one lap!"  Advice from Ralph Colley NGC 66

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

SATURDAY.  January 5, 2013

 

We have had a great week at St. Simons and have really enjoyed the seafood and scenery.  I think we have had our quota of fresh wild GA shrimp (I know Beth, there is no such thing as a quota for GA shrimp).  We have enjoyed the visit so much that we extended for another day and will go back to Reality, NC tomorrow.

 

I tried my first haircut since the loss of it from a one seat Hair Hut place from a exotic stylist named Nicole.  She is a  life long resident and gave me her story and the whole island's.  She is a hoot.  Then Jane lined me up for a manicure and pedicure which I thought was rather ridiculous since I had taken care of that with my pocket knife earlier in the week.  However, the pedicure sure felt good, almost too good.

I had a great birthday with calls from the kids and the many emails from NGC family.  Pretty special stuff. I also received gifts from Joyse who is with us on the trip and adds to the fun. Ike left a voice mail as he is usually on the move and said "He enjoyed Christmas and all the trouble we went to but really all we have to do is be together."  Took a long beach walk after that.

Looking forward to 2013 and not looking back!  Hope all have a wonderful year.

 

"Don't look back, something may be gaining on you.  Satchel Paige

 

Here is a view from the condo.